Many people cannot be happy in their romantic lives because they place the responsibility for their own happiness on someone else.

1st You are afraid of being replaced: you spend your time thinking that you will be easily replaced, being capable of any madness to control your partner’s steps.

2nd You cannot free yourself from an abusive relationship: even though you are mistreated, even suffering physical, verbal or financial abuse, you think it is normal.

3rd You end up pushing away the person you want to attract: by becoming an inconvenient, unbearable and even frightening person, you end up getting in the way of the relationship.

4th You can’t get over the end of the relationship: you continue to follow your ex’s every step, begging them to come back to you, humiliating yourself…

Source: universal.org